From Journey to Sexual Wholeness: The Six Gateways to Sacred Sexuality by Kypris Aster Drake|
Nwyvre (literally “Dragon Fire”) is a Druidic word for the sexual/ creative/spiritual energy that runs through the body, also known as kundalini, or chi. To safely awaken the fire of the dragon, we begin to cultivate deep body awareness through movement, breath, and meditative practice. There are many warnings in older textbooks about the dangers of awakening the kundalini if a student is not properly prepared, tales of mysterious illnesses and madness. In my experience, the kundalini only has these effects when it is forced through the chakras before they are ready to open. The safest and quickest way of waking it up is to do a gentle daily spiritual practice that includes breath and movement. You may also find that a really good way to awaken nwyvre is through self pleasuring with deep full breath, strong body awareness, and intention to move energy through the body. Whatever you do, let it be a gradual and gentle process, without forcing or goals. Come to your practice each time with openness and awareness that the energy may not move where you want it to, but knowing that if you are fully aware and connected to Spirit, it will move in some perfect direction.
Fully open and balanced chakras also create a much better sexual experience because each chakra is a place where we are able to give and receive sexual energy. We can experience ecstatic releases of energy that feel like orgasms in any of the chakras, and each chakra has a different feeling to it in this ecstatic state…a stomach chakra orgasm exploding from the solar plexus feels much different from a clitoral orgasm or a belly chakra (g-spot or prostate) orgasm. Orgasms in the third eye bring us to an intense spiritual state of mental clarity and wisdom, while orgasms in the g-spot seem to fill up my cup of desire and release any negative emotions of fear or need I have been holding onto. As part of lovemaking, with ourselves or with our partners, we can massage the chakras to bring awareness and energy to them. We can also kiss, lick, scratch, or tickle each chakra. We can blow on them with our breath. The more the chakras open, and the more we allow our sexual energy to flow through them, the more we are likely to have the ecstatic experience of the energy moving up and down the spine with an orgasm, or our merging with our partner and with all of creation, which is one experience available to us as we journey along the tantric path.